watching TV or reading books What does it mean to you when you are watching TV or reading books? Maybe it means killing time, gaining the latest news, learning something like history science, or just enjoying yourself a wonderful story. The ways they deliver information were quite different, but all in all, both of them are one of the main ways to receive information. The sense organs we use when we are watching TV are more various than the one we use when we are reading books. When we are watching TV, both of our eyes ears are active. We receive information not only by listening to the speakers, but also by the speakers’ body language. Beside, the pictures of the place where the conversation take place also include a lot of information. For reading books, authors spend a large amount of words to describe where the conversation takes place and what the speakers look like. And sometimes, authors add some particularly descriptions of speakers’ body language. So it takes more time to understand what the author wants to tell us. As the way they deliver information is different, the efficiency of them are not the same. In most situations, Watching TV is more efficient than reading books. Because when you reading books, you spend some time to read piles of words, and then you combine them together and use your imagination to build a picture in your mind. In contrast to reading books, you can gain those pictures directly by watching TV. You even use your imagination. What you do is just receive information and receive information. For example, I used two week to read <God-Father>, but I spend 4 hours to watch the movie of the same story. In this respect, watching TV wins a lot. For we almost don’t use our imagination when watching TV, we can regard watching TV is a passive way to gain information. Maybe that is one of the reasons why people can broaden knowledge by reading books but not by watching TV. Besides, we can choose what we want to reading we can even look back. But we can’t do the same thing when watching TV. For example, when I watching soap opera, I think what performing now related to the section is showed before 5 minutes, I want to rewind, but I can’t. Maybe for this reason, people make TV program easy to understand. Not only the range for us to choose a TV program is limited, but most of the TV program is not interesting at all. They always use too much time to tell a simple story. Books use interesting words and good story to win readers. TV program use beauti

For marriage(2) I place” intimacy” in the first. And for passion, I place it second. Passion is always attached to physical attraction. But it doesn’t mean that I will just love someone handsome. What I mean is more about behaving elegance. Not everyone have the chance to be born a nature beauty, but everyone has the chance to enhance the makings training. I can’t bear living with a man who has beer belly. There is not a man is nature born with beer belly. Who has beer belly means that he didn’t care about himself, and indulge himself drinking beer. My aunt recalled her first meet with my uncle, her husband. She said when she was young, there are many young guys chasing her, and my uncle is one of them. Some of those guys are handsome than my uncle, but my uncle is the only one who behaved like a grown men. His good behavior made up for the lack of his looks. My aunt can’t afford fell in love with him. The last element of my marriage is commitment. That means willingness to maintain long term relationship. It is difficult to judge whether the man will spend the remainder of his life with you before you break up. Actually, the long relationship between couples is more about family than love. My grandpa and my grandma always have argument with each other. When I was young, I even thought that they don’t love each other. But last summer, my grandpa hurt his legs. My grandma got very nerves. I find the great love between them. For that reason, don’t think lot about whether you will have happiness with the man you are going to marry. And I believe that the man who has the same values as me and is physical attraction to me will not break up with me without reason. All in all, I can’t tell the man I want to marry is poor or rich. But after rational analysis, I think the man is unlikely to be poor. So, I am not those kind of girl who want to marry a poor man for love.

For marriage Now a days, among marriageable young girls, there is a well-known saying that a woman's biggest achievement is to marry a rich man or a man surely will become rich. A girl said in public that she would prefer crying in the BMW than laughing on the bicycle. There are also many people fighting with those stupid thought. Some boys said those girls who only keep an eye on money are not worth to love. Some girls rush to make a clean break with those girls, and claim that the only thing they care about in a marriage is love. People always appreciate girls who values love most. But To my shame, I am not that girl. In a marriage, money can't be avoided to become a topic, but not the only one and not the one stands opposite to true love. Actually, there are many things should be considered in a marriage. What you should concern about depends on you. For me, I am willing to waste my whole life pursuing knowledge and love. There is no doubt that what I considered most in a marriage is love. Different from those girls who keeping the word love on the lips, I want to find what makes up love. Peter, guest professor of Yale University, have told his students, that love is made up of intimacy, passion, and commitment. I agree with this statement. Intimacy means closeness, sharing secrets or bonding. As searching for knowledge is one of my pursuits. I hope my partner has the same pursuit as mine, so we can have a lot of things to share. If you ask which couple I appreciate most. Without hesitation, I will answer Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin. Not only for their big achievement in Chinese Architecture, but also for their touching love story. Both of them have a great passion on Architecture. They help each other on this rough road. Lin Huiyin always helped Liang Sicheng with finding researching materials. Liang Sicheng helped Lin Huiyin drawing the blueprint of Monument to the Peoples heroes. For that reason, my partner must be a well educated man. Maybe he is not Knowledgeable now, but he must have a passion to search for knowledge. Besides, I like art and music. I can’t imagine when I excitedly talking about Tchaikovsky, my husband is unimpressed, and think what I am talking about is not interesting not at all.

私の夢~~ 私の夢は建築家になることです。どうして建築家になりたいのかと言うと、私は皆さんによい生活環境をあげったい。 わが国には多く古いの世界有名な建築ある。でも、現代建築が有名にない。また、多い問題がある。若い人が家を買わない、家の質量が悪い、机や椅子や棚が不便だ。中国では年々、生活水準がよいつつある。人々の生活环境しようとしている。

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