For marriage Now a days, among marriageable young girls, there is a well-known saying that a woman's biggest achievement is to marry a rich man or a man surely will become rich. A girl said in public that she would prefer crying in the BMW than laughing on the bicycle. There are also many people fighting with those stupid thought. Some boys said those girls who only keep an eye on money are not worth to love. Some girls rush to make a clean break with those girls, and claim that the only thing they care about in a marriage is love. People always appreciate girls who values love most. But To my shame, I am not that girl. In a marriage, money can't be avoided to become a topic, but not the only one and not the one stands opposite to true love. Actually, there are many things should be considered in a marriage. What you should concern about depends on you. For me, I am willing to waste my whole life pursuing knowledge and love. There is no doubt that what I considered most in a marriage is love. Different from those girls who keeping the word love on the lips, I want to find what makes up love. Peter, guest professor of Yale University, have told his students, that love is made up of intimacy, passion, and commitment. I agree with this statement. Intimacy means closeness, sharing secrets or bonding. As searching for knowledge is one of my pursuits. I hope my partner has the same pursuit as mine, so we can have a lot of things to share. If you ask which couple I appreciate most. Without hesitation, I will answer Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin. Not only for their big achievement in Chinese Architecture, but also for their touching love story. Both of them have a great passion on Architecture. They help each other on this rough road. Lin Huiyin always helped Liang Sicheng with finding researching materials. Liang Sicheng helped Lin Huiyin drawing the blueprint of Monument to the Peoples heroes. For that reason, my partner must be a well educated man. Maybe he is not Knowledgeable now, but he must have a passion to search for knowledge. Besides, I like art and music. I can’t imagine when I excitedly talking about Tchaikovsky, my husband is unimpressed, and think what I am talking about is not interesting not at all.