用‘您’交不了朋友

在学校里，老师告诉我们‘您’是对一个人表示尊敬的说法称呼。
In school, our teacher told us that using the word [nin] is a way of showing respect.
您今天好吗 ，您吃了吗 ，您过奖了。
How are [nin](you) doing today, have [nin](you) eaten yet, [nin](you)are being too kind.

但是用您交不了朋友，是保持距离的说法。
but you can't make friends when you use [nin], because it is a way of keeping your distance from others.
就好像日语中，用敬语也是会产生距离得的，一抹模一样。
Just like in Japanese, when you use 敬語 too much, you cant make friends.
但是在英语中，跟[您]同样的词好像是没有的。我们只有[you]，对老师也是[Mr/Ms/Mrs.]的称呼。
However in the English language, I don't think we have a word that is the equivalent of [nin]. We only use terms like [you] and such, even for teachers too, we often just say [mr/ms.mrs].
这果然是文化上的不同。真有趣阿啊！
I guess this is where you can spot the cultural differences,how very interesting...



BTW,I've decided to write entries in both english and chinese now..so while you are correcting my chinese, you can learn some english too...:D
Also thanks to everybody who helped my correct my entries, I really appreciate it！！
另外我决定用英语和中文来写日记了。这样你们不单帮了我，也可以同时同时也可以学习英文。谢谢大家一直以来帮我改日志~