Friends
Detailed topic:
Some people think it’s better to choose friends who always have the same
opinions as them. Other people believe it’s good to have friends who sometimes disagree with them.
Discuss both these views and give your own opinion.
Many people think having friends who always agree with them will be a good choice, but others think it is better to have friends with different opinions as them. In general, I like both the two types of friends, but as growing older I prefer those friends who sometimes disagree with me.
I think it makes us feel supportive if we share the same opinions with friends, especially when facing uncertain issues or situations. We learn from our experiences, but uncertainty is usually an obstacle preventing us from going forward. We will have more confidence in our actions and decisions if our friends have the same opinions as us, whereas we take our chances. Take my personal experience for example, when I was a high school student, most of the time I felt secure when I had same opinions with friends and it played an important role even when I was studying in the University.
In contrast, we can discover unnoticed facts when we have friends sometimes disagree with us. Because everyone is unique and understandable to have different opinions, which is usually we can learn from others. Our habits, thinking tendency, and preferences will help us with not missing directions when encountering uncertainty, however, they cannot guarantee that we can carefully take every aspect into consideration. For example, I can reform my own opinion more considerately from those disagreements from my friends when I am growing mature and have more experiences.
All in all, there are merits to have friends who agree with us most of the time and to have friends who have different opinions with us occasionally. It is a better choice for me at the current stage to have friends who disagree with me sometimes.