you've made a pretty shape of your question~ hehe~~ i don't think it is helping you, we can chat~ and both learn something from chatting~ is that so? will be happy to be your friend~ =^____^=

i face the same problem with you. but what i want to tell you is that you needn't feel so terrible, love is personal thing, you can't make a person love you, that is impossible to change a person's mind, if you do love him so much, you can do something. but just something good that can help him or tell him about your feeling.if he really so hard to get,set him free is a good choice. that is also set yourself free.

every mood is based on yourself. if you get in a bad mood, you needn't try too hard to inprove, because sometimes it doesn't works. keep your mind wide open and think anything you like, that may make you feel better.just follow your heart is ok!

OH~~  it's a pity that onbody reply. well,it seems that the sofa weill be mine~~ haha~
okey~ let me say something first.
acturally i haven't got some plans for the new year, but i know what i want.i just regard this year as a part of my journey to the future,to the dream~ hehe~  is that beautiful?~~

well, sometimes it's really a problem that you can't find the starting point. but you needn't to be so negative. why don't you try some other ideas? i can understand how hard it is to find a starting point,i suggest some english songs and films. you can both have fun and learn something. it's not so serious how much you learnt, but you learnt or not. and with this, you can have more topics to talk about, then it won't be a problem for you to chat. it takes some time, but really work well.

well, you made a good question! i like to share the happiness! my best thing in this year is......acturally i don't know. but i found i have interesting things everyday and i feel i have done something everyday. the year is not empty,, i think that's the best~ hehe

haha~ you're saying that you don't shy,right?
you made it~ welcome to our group