If you cannot trust him, things will never work no matter how hard you'd like them to. Do yourself a favour and move on. You'll be much happier in the long run.

i face the same problem with you. but what i want to tell you is that you needn't feel so terrible, love is personal thing, you can't make a person love you, that is impossible to change a person's mind, if you do love him so much, you can do something. but just something good that can help him or tell him about your feeling.if he really so hard to get,set him free is a good choice. that is also set yourself free.

Once my lecturer said that there exists two kinds of love - selfish and altruistic. Love is selfish when you want person to be with you inspite he loves you or not. Love is altruistic when you can leave your lover because he has not happiness with you and he wants to marry another person with whom he will be happy, he knows that he will be. Most of us are selfish in this part of life. We want our girlfriends/boyfriends be with us only but we do not see do they want it or not? We must consider it too but it is so difficult when you are in such situation. I understand your feelings because I know how it is when you love someone very much and he/she doesn't. So we must try to forget him/her. Do not believe in romantic novels and films where is written that we cannot forget our love. It is possible and we need for this alternative which we must find. In the past parents have been deciding who there children to marry with and in many times marriages were happy. There was not love in the beginning but it came after several years of living together. Opposite of this is big infatuasion, passion or obsession which you feel mostly in adolesence. This infatuation may last half a year not more and then it will be gone. So many frivilous children married in this period and what next? Life separately, maybe divorce, children which are their but which they cannot bring up properly. So this people were not happy, most of them, because love passed like everything passes. Of course, there are exceptions and people once married and forever. Once and forever - it is happiness. When you love a man so much that he can live with him/her until the end. We must decide how to reach this, how to find such person with whom we can be forever.

Is this a Middle-Eastern man pretending to be a woman?

rape him~~~~~~`