The victim The victim Have you ever locked yourself in the room with radio on turned up so loud and chat with your friends through social net working ,like QQ and Facebook ?Maybe you have hundreds of “good friends “ in your “room”,but you have never seen one of them .Even though ,more than half of young people who can’t help themselves emerging in the virtual world .As I get more negative consequences that result from social networking , I realize that I am the victim. There is only one computer in my my home ,my elder brother and I often fight for it .However ,I am not afraid of him thought he is 5 years older than me because I often cry ,which is my best weapon .Therefore ,I am the absolute winner .The social networking I use most is the the QQ .It is not only a social networking that we can chat with people around the world ,but also a social networking that we can play QQ games with our QQ good friends .I am in a state of great of great excitement when I chat with new people and am focused by them .If they are more people focus on you ,it means that you are popular and glamorous. Also ,I am addicted to playing QQ game with them .I am never satisfied when I successfully win and reach the next level, I just get nuts about the joy of victory. One the contrary ,It is my nature to say no to failure and I always vow to defeat them .I do have hundreds of “good friends” in my QQ list but I do have never seen one of them in real life except my classmates and families .It is normal that we are more curious about new people and new things, so it is no wonder that I spend most of the time on chatting with these people instead of my classmates and families . Nevertheless ,there is no point to do so because it is a waste of time and the most important is that it hurts me both physically and mentally. I got two problems.One is that I got poor eyesight and heavy headache.The other is that i don;t get reasonably good grades .Hence I become anxious and depress ,and even can’t sleep at some nights .When the doctor was examining my eyes , he gave me a warning that if i continue addicting to computer ,especially social networking ,my eyesight will become as poor as a rhino’s .” Is it will be a truth ?“I fumble and asked my psychologist ,who kindly told me the doctor just made a figure of speech but it is a must for me quit that bad habit.With the help of my parents and doctors,I gradually control myself and spend less and less time on social networking