The Clear Intention Sometimes when you want to get something, you have to have not just a wish to have it, but clear intention. I mean here it's having unconditionally intention just go and take what you want without thinking about "what i should do", "how do it right", "what if this will be unconvenient for someone or someone whose help I need" and so on. For instance, I have this little story. Maya and Ann were good friends. But in one fine moment Ann just disappeared, didn't call Maya, didn't write her, didn't answer her calling, but answered on sms which Maya sometimes sent Ann, just "I'm ok. You?" "I am ok too" - Maya answered and then their dialog was finishing. After more than a year since they were talking last time, Ann called Maya and said: "Oh hi, i haven't seen you for ages! How are you? Are you free today? Or tomorrow? I need to see you urgently! Tomorrow? Ok, I will come to you! I need you to make my English quiz, I know you know English good, you were in America last year! I'm sure you will help me!" Maya has agreed to help. Ann came to her with questions for quiz, they were engaged in English for 1,5 hours, then were talking and drinking tee around 15 minutes and Ann said "Thank you! You bailed me out, i'm sorry but I have a lot of exams now, so I must go, but I will call you through 2-3 weeks! Necessarily! Bye!" Maya told me about it 3 months later and of course Ann has disappeared again. Maya even didn't being angry or offended, she was just very surprised. I had one case. Once I was riding on the bus. I was sitting and listening to music. One woman came into the bus, came up to me and said: "Give me a place, girl!" I was so stunned that I just gave her my place. I should say she didn't be old, or sick. I would say she felt much better than me:) And I wouldn't say that I never argue and always ready to give up to everyone. This my act suprised me. After I stand up I just spacy thought: "What was it???" Someone can say it's just insolence, but here is in what a difference between a simple insolence and a clear intention. In the first case people can get angry because of such behavior, and they can start to hinder you. In the second case people don't get angry at once or later, they just surprised and stunned. But person with a clear intention just easy get what he wants. There are some people who do everything this way (like Ann who became a director of a chain of restaurants when she was just 22). Another just should learn it because of their upbringing