as that many people's answers, mutual undstanding and respect are very important, but i believe that when we follow love( love to the world), and try our best to eliminate hate from mind, keep appreciation, peace would not be too far.

show your love in acceptable way , neither rush nor hush, just be yourself, but please remember being sincere and patient, try your best to understand and respect her. last but not least, never push her tooo much

“的” 一般修饰名词，放名词后。“地”则修饰动词，放副词后。 “的”is used for adjective,usually followed by a noun,for example" a big room"==" 一个大的房间”。 whereas,"地“ for adverb, by a verb, like " speak loudly"==”大声地说话“。 but nowadays, there's not big distinction between this two words, people sometimes use "的” for verbs and nouns.

根据人的记忆规律，一个单词至少要强化出现在大脑13次才能记住。所以不想背单词你就多听听歌，学唱英文歌，为了弄懂歌词意思， 你自然会记住的，当然，要投入感情哦！还有要多阅读或者多用新词交流，那样不用死记硬背也能记住。祝你成功！

peut-etre c'est " OICQ" , un software de communication en Chine.

well, undoubtedly it's very effective . but besides speaking, please keep up  your listening and basic writing.