Never stop, but where are the results?

When I was a little girl I dreamt about a lot of things, such as travelling around the world, you need a different adjective here, saying "nice work" is generally reserved as a compliment and sounds out of place in this context, it could be better to say something like: meaningful work with people, being famous, a lot of money and making the world better.

I was dreaming hard, and working hard too. I was trying to be perfect in every little thing I was doing. And I have been doing this until now. I am 29.

I have got a job I adore. I have a perfect family. I have learned a lot of things I wanted to be able to do, such as dancing, speaking in front of a big auditorium, speaking English fluently etc.

But where are my results? Working hard doesn't mean to become a lot (I'm not sure the sense you are trying to convey here, but this sentence needs some editing, maybe "Working hard doesn't always mean that your life is perfect"). I am trying to give a lot, for example, to help people. And all the people around me love me because of this, and this makes me happy too. But I still don't have my own house, cannot travel and buy chocolate every day. What am I doing wrong? I need an example of people seeing results. Thank you.