Know yourself more and listen to your heart more I've read an article recently, and realized that if you care so much about other people's comment on you, you won't lead a happy life. Try to make decisions and future plans by what kind of person you want to be, not by what other people want you to be. I have a friend who treats others very kind and friendly, and she loves helping others as well, but she pays more attention to other people's comments, so she's always not happy. For example, when she need to make a decision, she would listen to her friend's suggestion too much, then at last, she has no idea about how to do it properly. At last, she would choose to do it as the most of the people do. Maybe that's a way of her life style. However, at that time when she's unhappy, I often feel so sorry for her. We live in the society, we should care other people's feelings, that's right, but we ought to listen to our heart, know ourselves well and try to make ourselves happy through the whole life.

Some thoughts about Family education As we all know, parents always try to give the best to their kids, especially on education. Therefore, there're a lot of private schools coming up with expensive education fee. Yes, going to a better school would help kids to achieve a better future, but I think the most important is what the parents are, parents themselves would play a big part in their kids' future life. I have watched several families, and compared them with my parents' education to me, I can often get a lot of useful informations. The most obvious conclusion is that kids have a lot the same as their parents. In order to make my future baby better educated, I have got a lot of self-improvement work to do. Ok, come on.

Treasure our life Two weeks ago, a fire destroyed a family in hangzhou. That's really so sad. The fire was started by the evil baby-sitter, she intentionally set fire to the house. It took 2 hours to put out the fire eventually, so 3 kids and their mother in the house hadn't survive. When I heard the news and saw the pictures of their lovely family, I felt so sorry about them. Actually, life is fragile, the fact that we are healthy and safe everyday can be a quite lucky thing for us.

To be optimistic When we are getting old, we gradually learn to know ourselves and know the world, and the most important difference between people is the thoughts. With different thought in us, we behave differently, so we can find many kinds of people all around. What interests me a lot is the optimist, this kind of people have a lot of happiness, they like to meet challenges, they have less complaints and don't blame others much. As I am a pessimist, I'll learn to change my mind to be optimistic. Every of us is pursuing happiness all the life, so try to change your mind first, that's the effective way to reach happiness.

Some thoughts called by Father's Day The day before yesterday is Father's Day. I was away from home, so what I could do is giving a love call. As we all know, father's love is always in silence, but endless. Now I have grown up, I obviously feel it. That's great love. As time going on, I love the heavy things much more. Maybe just because I'm also becoming more mature. And father's love is included in heavy things, I think. Now I get used to feeling something or somebody by heart. And the inner things is more important than the outside, that's the point I've come to realize.

Life should be like that These days, I got to know why we live in the world. As we all know, when we are born, we get to know we will die one day. So what's the meaning of our life? We come and go, what will leave in the world? What will we bring from the world? Now, I realized that when we come to the world, we only need to do two things. One is making money to survive, the other is doing things we like.And I believe everyone has his destiny, when his death is coming, just embrace it, don't be afraid, then take the memory and endless love along to depart. So when we are living in the world, we should make a meaningful life, feel the love from the people around, and do things we enjoy.

Be independent This evening, I saw a story in a TV play. That is happened between two best friends. One is failed in love with her boyfriend, and the other one tried to comfort her. However, the girl couldn’t go out of that sad feelings for a long time, so when she came back to the dormitory, she always talked about her sadness and she still loved her boyfriend very much, and so on, times and times. Then her best friend got bored of her and blamed her that she was too dependent, and the only person who could help her is herself, she should make herself happy. After watching the TV play, I have the same conclusion that every of us should first be independent, no matter what is happening, just as the programme told us. If other people could help us, we should be grateful, and appreciate that they are always around, but we can’t take it fro granted that we make them in our negative energy for a long time. Instead, we should help ourselves to be stronger.

Smog day It's a heavy smog day today, that's unhealthy to jog outside. Then what should I do to keep body building everyday? I find some indoor sports, and then make a decision to dance in my room when I can't jog. In addition, I buy a dancing blanket. From now on, whatever the weather is, I could continue my body building.