Know yourself more and listen to your heart more I've read an article recently, and realized that if you care so much about other people's comment on you, you won't lead a happy life. Try to make decisions and future plans by what kind of person you want to be, not by what other people want you to be. I have a friend who treats others very kind and friendly, and she loves helping others as well, but she pays more attention to other people's comments, so she's always not happy. For example, when she need to make a decision, she would listen to her friend's suggestion too much, then at last, she has no idea about how to do it properly. At last, she would choose to do it as the most of the people do. Maybe that's a way of her life style. However, at that time when she's unhappy, I often feel so sorry for her. We live in the society, we should care other people's feelings, that's right, but we ought to listen to our heart, know ourselves well and try to make ourselves happy through the whole life.