Broken Friendship - Part 1

I live in Shanghai, a very international city in China full of people from around the world. I am an open-minded person, funny and interesting, so I have a number of mix cultural friends here. I am a helper among my friends, and  if i know they are new here I always try to make them feel at home. They always ask me questions about Shanghai, for instance where they can go for nice Chinese food, where the good bars or clubs are, etc. I'm always organizing parties and events for my friends, and I always know what's going on here like when and where are the upcoming events.

I studied German for one year. I have to say language is the best way to approach people and make friends. Even if you might only speak a small amount, people feel close to you when you speak their language. During that time, I made many German friends and some of them became very good friends later on.

There is a German guy who I fought with two days ago. He loves China and especially Chinese girls. I think maybe he could not find a pretty one back his hometown, but that is none of my business. What bothered me is that he always complains to me about me knowing a lot Germans. I understand he doesn't want to hang out with people from his own country, because then he won't be the " special one " . He wants to be surrounded by only Chinese people. So he annoys me a lot by telling all my friends that I only like Germans and I am obsessed with Germans, which is not true because I know a lot of people from other countries as well. Sometimes even if there is no other German except him, he keeps saying that which annoys me a lot. I met up with him one week ago  when he did this, and then two days ago he did it again, which is two times within two weeks now. Before I didn't like to meet him very often, maybe once a month or so. But last time, I finally could not take it anymore because he irritated me so much, I had an outburst and the words just came out.Just thinking on your feet, if you were annoyed by someone like this for a year then what would you do? After dinner I kicked him out of my friend group, and decided I won't see him again.

To be continued......