Friendship Broke - Part 1 I had a big fight with a friend i know for a year two days ago....... It kind of ruined my mood for these days. it's not happened for 20 years. I am a soft temper person, nice, kind and helpful. All of my friends like me. When they need help, I am always trying my best help them out. Every time I met some new people, once they get to know me better, they always see a good and trustful friend. I live in an very international city in China, Shanghai, full of people from around the world. I am an open-minded person, funny and interesting. So I have a number of mix cultural friends here. I am a helper among my friends, if i know they are new here, I always try to make them feel like at home. They always ask me questions about Shanghai, for instance where they can go for nice Chinese food, bars or clubs. I always organized parties and events for my friends. And I always know what's going on here, when and what's next coming events. I used to learn one year German. I have to say language is the best way to approach people and make friends, even you might only speak very limit sentences, people feel close to you when you speak their language. During that time, i made many German friends, some of them became very good friends later on. There is a german guy, who I fought for two days ago. He loves China, especially Chinese girls. I think you could not find a pretty one back his hometown. However this is not my business. What bothered me is that he always complains me I know a lot Germans. I understand he doesn't want to hang out with people from his own country, because then he won't be the " special one " He only wants to surround by Chinese people. So he nags me exactly every time by telling all the people I only like Germans and I am obsessed with Germans which is not true. I know a lot of people from other countries as well, Sometimes even there is no any German except him, he keeps saying that which annoy me a lot. i met him one week ago he did this, and two days ago, he did again, which 2 weeks within so interval time in a row. Before I didn't meet him so frequently, maybe once a month, so I ignored him. But last time, I finally could not bear anymore. He irritated me, my outburst flowed without control. Just think on my shoes, if you are annoyed by someone like this for a year, what would you do? After dinner I kicked him out from my friends group, and decide I won't see him again. To be continue......