我非常淘气的儿子
最近我八岁的儿子太淘气了。他从来不听我的话。他对我咒骂,他把我打,他向我扔东西, 他总是跟我犟嘴。我觉得我对他的行为失去控制。我不知该做什么。在英国,轻轻地打你的孩子是非法的。(在英文里hit和smack很不一样,但是,我查不到一个中国词有smack的意思)我告诉他去你的房间,他总是不理我。我没收他的玩具, 不要让他使用电脑,不要让他外出玩,所有的惩罚都完全没用,他就是大声叫 “我不在乎”。我非常爱他, 但是,我不知所措,(at my wits end, 我可以也说,我已经智穷计尽了吗?)我怕很快我会疯掉的, 我应该怎么办?
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我非常淘气的儿子
最近我八岁的儿子太淘气了。他从来不听我的话0
我那非常淘气的儿子
最近我那八岁的儿子實在太淘气了。他(1)you have uesed 最近(recently) in your last sentance, so don't need to use 从来(never).
(2)smack? if you want to express that you hit him just for punishment, you can say, 在英國, 即使是"稍微體罰一下"你的孩子都算是非法的. "體罰" is corporal punishment; "稍微...一下"is a little bit...
(3)yes, but I think不知所措is better.
Your article is very very good, I believe every Chinese understand your words.
I just add some words for Chinese style.
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I have heard that it is effective to say your feeling or situation for the children of this age, instead of giving direct orders, like "I feel glad if you ...", "I feel sad if you ....", "I need ... because ...". For it is the age to be able to understand the adult's situation to some extent.
And they say that the child about these age starts suffering the difficulty of human relationship. Then he/she can feel the stress in school sometimes and can feel sad. So there are times he/she wants understanding or caring from parents.
Actually I don't know well for myself. It's just information.
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我非常淘气的儿子
最近我八岁的儿子0
我非常淘气的儿子
最近我八岁的儿子太淘气了。他总是不听我的话。他骂我,甚至对我动手(动粗),他朝我扔东西, 他总是跟我犟嘴。我觉得我对他的行为失去控制(我觉得管不住他了,我觉得拿他没辙了,)。我不知该做什么(我不知道怎么办才好/我不知道该怎么办)。在英国,在英国,打孩子是违法的,即使是打屁股或者打耳光也不行,中国不是这样的。
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