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Drink or Dine? "Would you like to grab a coffee sometime?" My friend texted me when I came to Australia. "Sounds nice!" I replied. But actually, people in China more often invite their friends for dinner or lunch rather than "a coffee", which can be regarded too business-style and too light a treat. Sometimes, the invitation can be "would you like to have a drink/go out tonight?", which is a sharp contrast with Chinese "dinner" culture. "Drink or dine" is not only the difference between China and Australia, but probably also the difference between Asian countries and the Western world. My Korean friend confirmed a similar case in her country (but Korea has a stronger drinking culture compared to China). And my Czech friend told me that only in formal celebrations will she invite friends for dinner; most of the time, a coffee or a drink would start a good conversation between friends. In China, the emphasis on food may have deep roots in our culture. As the old Chinese saying goes, "Food is a paramount necessity". While this may be universal in the world, the great varieties of cuisines in China can definitely dazzle the eyes. Delicious food, nice environment and a good chat are important ingredients of Chinese social life. What about in your country? What would you say if you want to invite your friend out? Thanks.

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Sometimes, the invitation can be "would you like to have a drink/go out tonight?", which is a sharp contrast with Chinese "dinner" culture.

I would have said 'which is in sharp contrast to Chinese culture' or maybe 'which contrasts sharply with Chinese ...' but I think your sentence is possible too.

My Korean friend confirmed a similar case in her country-

sounds like on one occasion. My Korean friend confirmed that the case/situation is similar in her country

And my Czech friend told me that only in formal celebrations will she invite friends for dinner

The sentence is correct, but if you use conditional -'...only on formal occasions would  she invite...'-  it would emphasize that it is unusual.


 Delicious food, a nice environment and a good chat are important ingredients of Chinese social life.

What about in your country? What would you say if you wanted to invite your friend out?

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Thank you Ross and Marcelpignole! I guess "inviting a person for a dinner or lunch" is not a very big deal in China. Of course you invite your date for dinner, this can be very serious. But for friends, it is very very common here. "Inviting a person to your home" is a very big deal, but to restaurants is not. I personally have only invited my friends "for a drink" while I was in Australia. When I came back to China, I invite my friends to dinner/lunch to catch up with everything.
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I agree with my Irish mate below. In my country, inviting someone to a drink is very common. It actually is a basic in terms of social use. When a person invites some other to a dinner it is to talk about business or on very private occasions (family, dates, etc) We actually invite people to our places, but for a drink for example we often invite people for an "apero" on fridays and saturdays evening (by often I mean almost all fridays and saturdays evening) So, like he said, inviting a person for a dinner is "kind of a very big deal" :)
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Oh reallY? That is interesting to know. For me lunch sounds like a much bigger commitment. In the south of Europe lunch can be long so I would consider coffee a lighter option. Do you mean people invite you to their homes or a restaurant? In southern Europe social life is held in public places and inviting someone to your house is quite a big deal as it means a lot of cleaning the house beforehand. In Ireland it is more usual than in Spain to invite friends to your house for something simple – a bowl of soup. But Ireland is very drinking orientated so the most usual is meet for a drink.

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