When I felt sort of better , my father's passive words with anger broke my peace .("passive" with "anger" is difficult.  Because they're sort of opposites.  "anger" is usually "aggressive", its an "active" emotion.  One sort of exception is "passive aggressive" which is a sort of psychological term meaning to try to manipulate someone else inappropriately but to do so in a passive way.  So for instance, if you have a roommate and they aren't very neat, you could tell them politely that you would like it if they clean up more often.  Or you could leave them notes on the refrigerator saying "Clean up!"  So the latter is sort of passive aggressive because its not directly saying something but it is saying something aggressive.  That's actually not a great example.  But just in general "passive aggressive" means to try to aggressively manipulate someone but in an indirect, passive way.  But here... maybe you mean "my father's angry words unintentionally broke my peace.  不故意? Or you could mean "my father's angry words about my passivity" i.e., that he was upset that you weren't being more active.  I don't know.)

He didn't know what he were doing is really bad to him .(This sentence confuses me even more as to the previous.  "is really bad for him" means something is harmful to him.  So you could mean "He didn't know that what he was doing was really bad for him"?)

Nothing could be changed with complains .("could be" is past tense.  I don't think that's what you mean here. "Nothing could be changed by complaining."  "Nothing could be changed with complaints" but these are past tense.  You probably mean "Nothing can be changed by complaining.")
Attitude can't decide everything but influences how you feel . I do need to change my way to thinkof thinking and get out of sadness as soon as possible .(Or "stop being sad as soon as possible" or "stop being depressed as soon as possible" or "get out of my sad mood") It's a pity that my friends couldn't spend time with me . They told me they can pay (me) a visit here before .("Before" sounds better at the beginning of the sentence, because otherwise its like its modifying when they can pay you a visit, rather than when they told you they would pay you a visit") But both of them can't come here for various reasons .(This sounds better with something qualifying "reasons" like "their own reasons".  Also "couldn't" is better than "can't".  "can't" suggests that there's something at where you are that prevents them from coming or you prevented them from coming.  "couldn't" suggests that they weren't able to for their own reasons.  "could" versus "can".  Its subtle, you can use either.) I was informed the bad news in one/the same week . Everyone has their difficulties in life , I should be more strong .
It seems/feels like I'm swimming in a deep and blue sea .