Ten years' love
When we talk about love, there are several words around in our mind: True love, Eternal love, Love someone forever, Unchangeable love... Does it exist or just a kind of hope? Yes, we are human-beings and we need love, that is a kind of emotion. But there is something making me confused, let us talk about that.
Ten years' before, we could love someone or to do something, but after ten years later, we probably change our taste. It is always happened! Each of us is changing by the time, at the same time, what we pursuing is also different.
As we know, our cells in body have different life circle from three days to several years, which means we are not the same as three days before.In marriage, we often say the seven year itch and ten years of pain, they may have relation with the life circle of our cells. Anyway, it is true that we all are changing, but we hope an unchangeable love from our partner. Love is a kind of energy which should flow from here to there or it will be blocked. If a person changes, his love may change too.
If that, isn't there an eternal love? Well, in my opinion, it exists!
Love as a kind of energy, it is always changing. When it changes with different degrees, we should believe that it is just like that. But don't let them be zero or even make them become negative energy, then love disappear while hate, the negative energy replace love, things are gonna be really terrible! In this situation, we must understand that and find a way to solve it. What we can do is to improve ourself, learn how to make the love flow smoothly. Change is not terrible but the stalled energy.
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Ten years' love
When we talk about love, there are several words around in our and phrases that come to mind: True love, Eternal love, Love someone forever. Unchangeable love... Does it exist or is it just a kind of hope? Yes, we are human-beings and we need love, that this is a kind of emotion. But there is something making that makes me confused, let us talk about that.
If ten years' before ago, we could had loved someone or loved to do something, but after then ten years later, we may probably have changed our taste. It is always happened happens! Each of us is changing changed by the time, at the same time, what we pursuing is also different.
As we know, our the cells inour body have different life circle cycles from three days to several years, which means we are not the same as three days before.In marriage, we often say the seven year itch and ten years of pain, they may have be relation related to with the life circle of our cells. Anyway, it is true that we all are changing, but we hope to have an unchangeable love from our partner. Love is a kind of energy which should flow from here to there or it will be blocked. If a person changes, his love may change too.
If that is true, isn't there an eternal love? Well, in my opinion, it exists!
Love as a kind of energy it is always changing. When it changes with different degrees, we should believe understand that it is just like that. but don't let We should not allow it to get to them be zero or even make to let them it become a negative energy, then love will disappear, while hate, the negative energy will replace love,then things are gonna going to be really terrible! In this situation, we must understand that and find a way to solve it. What we can do is to improve ourself, learn how to make the love flow smoothly. Change is not terrible but the only stalled energy.
This course need both to learn!
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love has only one kind.people calls this with different different names like.unconditional..eternal..true love etc etc.... and which mostly people calls love is not actually the love that is "want" or "desire".bcz want and desire has expectations but love free from any expectations,and these are expectations which becomes the reason of pain,seprations,hate,pleasures,enjoyment
and love is the reason of only one thing 'constant happiness"
and if you love someone then this love will constant during whole life,if it dosen't depend on any phycle quality,or any object
and if we talks about layman's view then sure people gets change,their prefrences also gets change,and in these type of situations we both need to change ourselves accourding the time and situations, and both side need to do some compromise...and if both side have an great understanding level then every change can be so easy..
so two things are so important in any relationship "understanding level" "faith"--both things keep alive the "love" in hearts :-)
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To Peter: Expecting love to be eternal is not a problem, the problem is we always take an eternal love as the only way of true love, this concept exists in our mind which make us feel uncomfortable when our close relationships are broken. We may suspect others, judge a new relationship with unreasonable thoughts. The most important thing is we lost our peaceful heart which make us close our eyes and can't enjoy our life...I understand everything is changing, for love, I think first we should keep our love energy and then we both should learn how to promote it, maybe we really can have an eternal love, at least, we have love inside. :D
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I prefer to see love as a flame, in some it burns very brightly and in others it is dim, sometimes it starts brightly and then goes out, other times it is small to begin but turns into a mighty fire in time. We should all try to maintain the fire of love.
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i also agree. one thing i thought about after i read your post:
everything is born, lives, and dies - how do you expect love to be eternal? maybe love is the understanding that everything is born lives and dies - then it can be eternal.
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