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If I should go back to China for Chinese New Year
I checked the price for the tickets to China around Chinese New Year,but it seems the price has never dropped!! It is still super expensive....I heard lots of many people said rumoured that it might may drop on in December. Hopefully that this is true its ture!
I have been here in America for 1 a year. so I did miss Spring Festival the Chinese New Year last year. ,and I felt so lonely. I even cried when I was talking to my dad on that day at that time .My friends in China told me that we will they got together to partying together. ,after I heard on hearing the news that I will be returning at the end of this year.that I decided to go back this end of year.But However things are not as easy as I thought.
I talked to my boss and asked her if I can request for a month or two 1 or 2 monthes off to go back to China. Her ,and without any doubt,her answer was "No". She told me that if I want to go back,I need I can go back when I to quit the my job!! To be honest ,I dont really do not like my job.Taking I took this job was just for having more for the experience since I didnt have any when I first got here.I had no whatever job experience before this. Well, I know that I must have at least a year of experience before I can apply for another one. I have been struggling with myself when I found out the holiday situation. I need to have at least 1 year experience to work in customer service for applying the second job to work in he same field,but if I quit the job,I wont have enough experience and that makes my decision tougher.I have been struggling for months after I got such news.
A couple of weeks ago, I talked to my mum and what she told me made me even more anxious to go home. Nevertheless, I will try my best to make it to go back return next year. I will keep my track on the price of the airplane tickets. and once I see the deal show up,I will definitely book it right away when I see when a good deal pops up. and deal with the "no job" I shall tackle the job problem later when I come back return. 1 I think what I need to do now is just cutting off all the thoughts that hangs in my mind ,that way will make myself more ease to decide what to do next,
This actually make me think about one thing that I really want to ask you guys.Whats more important for you ,your family or your career?? What I should do now is to concentrate on my job as it will be easier to decide on things later. I would like to ask you guys that what is more important, family or career?
This depends on the situation. Anyone in your family needs to see you before they pass on? If not, your career is more important. You can go back some other time rather on CNY. If you are lonely on that day, go gather your friends in the US and make a party for yourself. From what I gather in your writing, you are lonely and wanted to have fun. To me that's is irresponsible. Who would want to hire you if you have this kind of thoughts, when you want fun, you quit your job and go to gratify yourself. Think from your boss point of view. Would you let your employee go for holidays for 2 months? I don't think so. If I were you, I get the job experience first. Before start working on your new job, then go for a 3 month vacation.
1. I don't think you can even do that. I am quite sure you are not as permanent resident in the US. Most probably you are on a job visa. When you quit your current job, you are not allowed to reenter the US. So think carefully of the consequences.
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