I don’t know what really do in that tough situation. now I say I enjoy the life as much as I can, but I think the human being is so complicated and we cannot  expect  him or her have a balance manner in normal situation so how we can imagine what his or her reaction in that hard time.

 I have reached to this conclusion by seeing the situation of some friends, marriage in Iran is like a gradual suicide for women. In a society that men all the time are winner. We confess men and women are equal but the women don’t have any right to make a decision for very tiny matters. Nowadays the conflicts with traditional and modern attitudes have increased these obstacles more for future of girls and women. The Iranian boys try to show they are open-minded and educated and respect to women’s idea but in reality we see traditional attitudes dominate on their thoughts and this can show its effect more in marriage.I pretend we are modern in our marriage but in deep consideration we understood we are Iranian without a special culture and we cannot ignore our traditional attitudes in marriage. So there are a lot of differences between our imaginations about coupling life with the reality.

All of our moods come from our spirit. Every person experienced the sweet and bit moments in life and the reality of life is combination of these two processes but sometimes the period of sadness and sorrow take a long time and we think there is no reason to be alive and we see ourselves in the darkest spot of life and there is no incentive to lead our life, maybe this kind of position happen during our hard time but  if  it continues and becomes  as a part of our personality it is so dangerous and there is no difference between us and  the dead.