leave for "sick" My company allows 5 days' leave for sick, 2011 nearly past, I just spent 1 of them, so I called for a sick leave today to having supper with a female friend. She is my classmate's friend, when she come to Peking, her friend - my classmate called me, my friend go to peking, take care of her, oh~, she single. Sounds good, but I don't know what I feel. When I saw her for the first sight, I feel nothing, totally. I made myself gentle as a man can, because she's my classmate - good friend's friend, and I succeed obviously, I feel sorry of it deeply. She's a very nice girl, does everything properly. She love her work, love home, and we have different opinions upon the world. I love my work, love home with a very different way. I think work is a part of life, she think work is work, life is life, they could be the same thing never, and want to settle down the work in several years and then the life or home. This is I never understand, I now love my work so does the life, why I abandon one of them. She now keeping calling me with this or that reason as a just friend. I hope she really just see me as a just friend. I heard, if a moman payed for your dinner bill, you got no chance be her boy friend, i hope it's ture.