The bad news is there is no easy way but the good news is there is no such thing as IMPOSSIBLE, almost everything is achievable through hard work and patience. One way could be, at the end of each day, analyse your whole day's actions and this exercise will not consume more than 10 minutes of your life. It is said knowing is half the battle. So first identify the habits you need to change and than act. Best of luck! Hope it helps

Nice one, so Shaimaa are you helping yourself or just praying? :PPP

The phrase originated from criminal world and as far as I remember it was first used in the novel called "godfather" but the language has evolved much from that day, so it can be used for other actions too, like for example, success in something or achievement. In your case she is probably saying that she needs to establish, achieve or want to gain respect as a writer. Hope it helps ;))))

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