I have noticed that it is very difficult to me to say 'no' sometimes.
I have noticed that it is very difficult to me to say 'no' sometimes. Even if there are no reasons for me to agreed, I still cannot refuse when other people ask me about doing something. Is it bad aspect of my personality or not?
I have been thinking of moments like this. When you know that it isn't a good idea to accept someone's desire, and you should say 'no', because it is not a crime, and the others will understand your point of view. In spite of these factors, we are not able to express our true thoughts. Why is that?
I believe, we just could be afraid of the fact that we can dissapoint people around us. Especially, if there are our beloved members of family, or colleagues that we respect, or dear friends, which interests and thoughts are very important for us.
The thing is, that people who truly cherish you will never judge you just because of hearing 'no' from you. The true word and your straightening to the point will make them to respect you and your needs.