that is the situation i am facing with. i have a good job here, and then i got an offer from a bank in my hometown. That decision is gonna change my whole life, so i am quite confused this time. To work here i will possible settle down here, which will be not so easy, since the consuption level here is quite high;to go back and work in a bank seems quite good option, since the bank is owned by government, we can have good welfare, and an easy life in my hometown, in addition, i can stay closer with my parents.But problem is i feel so bad to dispoint my boss here, since he is very nice, and wants me to stay here, and i also like the city. If you were me, which will you choose?