Did you ever have this feeling the same as me?

I can't help trying to do some things which are hard for me or unfit for me again and again. It may because I was taught to do so when I was a child: To prove my power or ability as possible as I can！And since I don't want to be proved to do worse than others, I am always doing these things desperately. However, what a tragedy, I am always proved to be wrong, for these things are really unfit for me...
Now I find this is doing great harm to me. I'm always feeling exhausted and not much happy. For I did such things just for proving myself, not because I love to do it-- My body tell me he don't like doing it at all...
Did you ever have the same feeling with me? How can I stop doing such stupid things? Can anybody help me out?...

Can you help me in writing this letter to my uncle?

Hello uncle,

It was long time before we haven't communicate with each other.My father and mother were missing you.Could you stay in touch with them ?They will feel better if you do so.I hope raja(uncles son) is fine.
Regards
uncle and raja

How Can I Cheer Up My Friend After Her Break-Up ?

My best friend broke up with her boy friend. She was so sad these days. Actually, she has lost her passion of life. What she does after her break-up was staying at home, eating a lot of chocolate,listening to the sad music and crying! Poor girl~_~

I did try to bring her to the restaurant , she refused ...
I did try to introduce her someone new, she refused...
I did try to make many jokes to make her laugh, she cried...
I did try everything I can to cheer her up , but she feels still very sad...

What should I do now?How can I cheer up my friend after her break-up?

May 20, 2010 Over the Years

When I was going to take a nap this afternoon, my senior, who is one of my colleagues, came to see me. She said she lost her sleep, just like what happend to me before. I felt pity of her because I knew how afflictive it was when someone could not fall asleep and had to be awake all night.

So we sat down together and talked. Actually we didn't know each other very well, because you know, we are colleagues; Colleagues usually don't talk about very private affairs. She talked about her families, boyfriend, ex-boyfriend... Then I knew what she had experienced over the years. Life is the same like a drama, you were doomed to miss someone who perhaps is the most important one throughout your life. The most wonderful things are usually in our memories of the past.

We talked a long time, and then went for a meal, after that we bought some pineapple beer... hope she can have a good sleep tonight.

May 20, 2010 Over the Years

When I was going to take a nap this afternoon, my senior, who is one of my colleagues, came to see me. She said she lost her sleep, just like what happend to me before. I felt pity of her because I knew how afflictive it was when someone could not fall asleep and had to be awake all night.

So we sat down together and talked. Actually we didn't know each other very well, because you know, we are colleagues; Colleagues usually don't talk about very private affairs. She talked about her families, boyfriend, ex-boyfriend... Then I knew what she had experienced over the years. Life is the same like a drama, you were doomed to miss someone who perhaps is the most important one throughout your life. The most wonderful things are usually in our memories of the past.

We talked for a long time, and then went for a meal, after that we bought some pineapple beer... hope she can have a good sleep tonight.