It is the cessation of life, total nothingness

Hi Lilia, and just why do you ask young lady? :-) The only reason I can think to deliberately seek a foreign person is to improve on your local situation and yeah, sure, sometimes the 'grass seems greener' on the other side and thats cool, but remember, there is always some price to pay. There is no utopia. Its true, foreign relationships can be very exciting fantasy adventures but you must be sure in your own heart that it is true love, - but if you are really in love with the man you should not risk losing a precious, irreplaceable love due to misinformed fears you may have about foreigners, for example my fiance is Ukrainian and she was very skeptical of me for a long time due to her misconceptions about Americans. So be prepared for major culture clashes and big time misunderstandings! You really need to work harder on communication, so often your other half does not mean what you think he or she means! You need to always see things from each other's perspective. I cannot stress how important this is! Because of the language and cultural differences there is added danger that the relationship will fail due to lack of understanding and breakdown in communication, so a great deal of patience, understanding and maturity is definetely needed, but if you really work hard on this you can enjoy a beautiful life together! A local man might be the easy way, maybe safer, but you want a mediocre life? Sorry to have so much to say but hey, I'm American, we talk, thats what we do! :-)