The first is good. In English there are two ways you can phrase a verb. One is active where the subject is doing the action like “I kicked” . The other is passive where the subject receives the action; “I was kicked” You use the form of “to be” and the ed form of the verb for the passive. So in the second one, you can either say “do you want to kick(active)” or “do you want to be kicked(passive)” . In the second example you are the thing being kicked. In the third one, you just have to switch out “to have” with “to be” to be the receiver of the kicks. The reason you don’t conjugate “to be” is becuase you already have the verb “want”. Also, in English kick is most often used as a transitive verb. You have to say what you kicked, if you used the active voice, or people will be confused. So say “Do you want to kick (the object)” instead If you are the one kicking .

https://www.ssa.gov/oact/babynames/decades/century.html Here’s a link to the most common names over the past 100 year in the U.S. If you choose one from around the year you were born, you’ll fit right in. Otherwise you can look through the list and see if you like any. If your coming to the U.S. don’t worry about it too much as some people can have very unusual names and no one cares too much.