I think we should sometimes learn to be dependent , which is a very great way for us to make friends . If you ask a person to give you a hand , which is not so difficult for him to complete . Then you owe him a favor, next he may ask you for help , at the same time, he will treat you as his friend. Just like , if you want sb to be your friend ,you dont have to always think to give him a favor, you can also ask him for a help first ! In a word, you should treat him as your friend ! If you never ask your friends for help or always refuse the help from your friends, then you may lose your friends soon ! Besides, in China , we respect the soft and gentle beauty of women. As a woman, you shouldn't always be strong and independent!

Although he was always the "background" briefer on foreign policy issues, he could never be identified as anything other than "a White House official" or "a high Administration source." 虽然外交问题的“背景情况”总是由他介绍，但他也仅仅只能被认为是“一位白宫官员”或者“一位政府高级人士”。