It might be a problem to explain the right pronunciation
because many people from non-Slavic countries
simply do not hear the difference between the sounds 's' an 'ś'.
I suggest you to use website http://www.ivosoftware.com/
with text-to-speech software to try if you can hear the difference.
I have checked that you can obtain quite naturally sounding result
if you enter - for example - this text.
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Kos, kos, kos.
Kosz, kosz, kosz.
Koś, koś, koś.
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kos = blackbird
kosz = basket
koś = mow, scythe (the imperative).
You can practice also with other text.
I wish you luck.