Hi Timur, I would like to suggest reading Joseph Murphy who has wise answers to many important existential questions. In his book, The power of your subconscious mind, he says that your thoughts about others are a reflection of you own inner feelings and attitudes. If you wish for others what you desire for yourself, you will be able to attain a more harmonious life. Being generous toward others, will bring blessings into your own reality. Therefore, do not get anxious about what others think of you, if they approve or disapprove, but love them disinterestedly as your kin, or your brothers, and those good feelings will get back, bringing you peace and love.