i find it hard to answer your question although i'm a filipino. don't worry filipinos won't be offended if you accidentally say an offensive word(we understand that it is to due to wrong grammar). Filipinos are very nice and friendly and we will definitely understand you. Just smile at us and we'll be fine.

someone deserves to be cheat. sometimes we just can't help but cheat.. i believe that everyone cheat in different ways. as for me,, if i intentionally cheat a person so as to cover up or hide something i'd be very sad afterward especially if she/he doesn't deserve to be cheated. But if i cheat because that's the best option to do,, though i feel sorry but since it's the best choice then i'd be okay.

anything is possible. i've got a lot of male friends and it's cool. but of course there will always be people who can't accept that fact - depends on the culture, and environment. but it's really cool having having a friend w/ opposite sex and i don't see wrong in that..

hello.. i'm also studying the language. so i hope i can share with you the things i did to learn japanese(though i'm not yet good at it).. First thing is you must have the passion to learn the language so you won't get tired because at first it is really difficult to learn especially the fact that the sentence construction is different from english(you'll gotta realize that on the latter part). For now, you can engage yourself to watching japanese movies/series for you to familiarize the language. Then buy books that can be helpful in your study of the language. there were also sites in the net that are really helpful on your japanese lesson. I also agree w/ GTO idea.. so there i hope you'll learn the language soon.. Goodluck.. Ja mata ne(until then)