Don't take things personally if they insult you directly ( b'c they don't tell that because of you, it's based on their beliefs and their opinion) ,we forgive other people because it give our become more happy , good for ourselves.and we can listen and obey your parents like help their houswork... consistenly but keep your dream and pursuit it everyday oprah winfrey: " I was looking around my way through what felt like the right thing but what I knew was that whatever the right thing was, it wasn't good to be what everybody else told me it was.." If you want to be good some area, you must find role model and follow them and you will succeed faster

A role model is someone has the result you want, so you copy their approach, their strategies,.. but just in one specific area, not the whole area of your life .for example: If you want to be good at golf then maybe your role model should be Tiger Woods, you do what he did to be the No.1 golfer in the world, but maybe you don't want your relationship to be like Tiger Woods's :)

I'm also Vietnamese. I want to know where do you live?