I had the same questions my whole life ...and i was unsure about my answers ...but then i meet a friend and he told me maybe u r affected from society and u need to live for your self ...now i have a goal its like a dream but i will never give up until i reach it .

i think with your definition about arguing and discussing i prefer discussion cause sometimes when u try to prove that u r true u will make people to guard against your idea (its hard to accept sth that you were trying to prove that it is wrong ) but if we ask this question that what is right ? then we dont need to worry about people to guard against the idea.

video games watching movies and series ....hardly study a book ...

Egypt,china,japan and Germany 

@stephanie its hard to be so honest with people they may become sad or even angry when u tell the truth about sth like their appearance .i tried to be so but when i saw such reactions i preferred to lie about them.

@sudeep i am completely agree with you .i know some people who are so respected by others and have the same policy as u said in your comment .they dont say big lies and they dont tell the truth always .thats a good policy 

@Katarina small lies as u mentioned are easy to forgive and forget people are good small liars with your definition of small lies and we all get it when people says small lies and we know the reason they dont want to make us unhappy by saying the truth but sometimes u will lie about something that is important and people dont know about it and u should hide your lie .thats very good that u can stop your self to telling such a lies.