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If I were a boy sitting in his bedroom, facing a pad, watching the silent street outside the window and expecting find some friends, what should I do?
Nobody in the class I am interested in, everyone talks about expectations, grades, money. If you can't follow their trends they even laugh at you. Maybe that boy lives next door to me? No, he seems to have no common topic with me.
Maybe everyone can be my friend. They just put on a fake mask in reality daily life because they have to, they have things chasing after. If I take enough time to get along with them, we will definitely be friends!
But I don't have that much time. besides, even if I have that much of time, who shoud I choose? Why A rather then B? It's not fair. Like when they ask me one day, "why choose me to be your best friend?" I can not answer that question.
Why the world is so big and I can't even find a friend? I just want to be mutual honest with someone, experiencing our exciting life together. Sharing knowledges, feelings, happiness, faliures……
See what other people do. I said to muself and open the pad.
【HI, Eduardo! maybe you will think that it's a strange comment, but I do write it seriously! What's the world like on the internet? Is everyone being real and honest? Can the boy find some websites that suits him? I think that is a probability thing. Fake and real, cold and warm, they exist at the same time, changing by each other in every second. I believe that the boy can finally find someone who can be his real friend, because when you being yourself in the public, people will see, and the same kind will get together. :)】
0 votedJuly 5, 20160刚开始并不会注意国家口音之间的区别,因为听不出来,而且也没有意识到重要性。
后来听力能力提高一些,自然就能听出口音的区别(比如英式和美式能听的很明显)
因为有了口音的概念,所以说话的时候就开始产生选择困难症。不知道每个单词的发音用哪个统一比较好。
现在大概处于归纳口音的阶段。比如:can, 我知道有两种明显不同的发音,然后我需要归纳一下哪一种是英式哪一种是美式。需要加以归纳是因为,之前在记忆两种发音的时候并没有注意是哪一种口音,所以只能凭借回忆,回想当时听到这个口音时是谁说的?这个人是哪部剧的?英剧还是美剧?英国人还是美国人?
现在意识到了口音的重要性,就好像画一幅素描,已经打好了草稿,那么细节的追求就开始变得重要和迫切。
总的来说,我开始是乱学的,现在有意识整理区别。
我觉得还是一开始完全掌握一种口音比较好吧……然后去根据一种口音,产生对其他口音的敏感度。有了一个参考坐标,学习会更加容易吧。
不过我是不可能重来了。
从下一个语言的学习开始注意吧……
0 votedMay 11, 20160- a brief introduction of myself [journal 3] I am Hannah, if you call my name in Chinese, it would sounds like "han". I started learning English when I was 7,but at that time I was forced by school to learn, so I didn't make much effort to do well. It was only when I went to middle school that I became a sensible child and really tried to follow my teachers. I got pretty good scores in English when I was around 15(about 90%), and also did not bad during highschool. It wasn't untill I went to college that I realized that all I learned was just book knowledge. I found that I coulden't even have a real conversation with a native English speaker! That really irretated me so I started watching hundres of movies in English, using audible, reading English novels…… and I found itaki. Learning a language is such an interesting thing, but It took me so many years to realize it. Now all I want to do is learn as many languages as possible ,and get to know more about the world. About my family, it's just normal in china, not very rich but also not very poor. We live in an apartment, my father, mother and I. I am their only child, as you know it's because of the one child policy. And about my city I grew up in, it's name is Wuhan, the biggest city in central China. more than 10 million people live in there. I am not very outgoing, I can be satiesfied with painting and reading for a whole day by myself. But I am not introversion neither, maybe between the two characteristics. So becuse of such a personality, I have a few friends, but they are true friends. About movies……I like the series of spiderman! and the TV play "agents of shield". There are so many good movies, "Leon the Professional","The Legend of 1900","Forrest Gump", "The Lord of the Rings","Proud and Prejudice"……recently I am watching a TV play "Toledo: Cruce de Destinos", but it's in spanish. All in all, I come here to make friends and learn languages~Goodnight China, good morning America. :)
May 7, 201651 要和美国人交朋友千万不要犯这5个错误
1)以为美国人都很开放。欧洲人眼中的美国人其实比较保守。而且,每个国家都有保守和开放的人。我以前在深圳教过一个湖南男人英文。他告诉我,据他在美国留学的朋友说,美国人都经常开"sex parties"。我跟他说这种活动非常少,一个典型的美国人没参加过不会参加。他拒绝了接受我的答案,说我比普通美国人保守多了所以不知那种活动多么普遍。我那时候真的无语。他除了我以外,连一个美国人都不认识,也没去过西方,还那么确定。电视电影不代表真正的生活。和外国人交流时,要认真地听他们怎么说,不要以为自己比美国人更理解美国文化。
2)把我们当做傻X。少数美国人确实不会关注别的国家,但是学普通话的老外,特别是在华的老外,都至少学过最基本的中国文化和历史。我们都听过毛主席、春节、台湾等等。对我们有一点信心吧。我们同样也不会问你你知不知道奥巴马是谁、有没有听过纽约之类的问题。
3) 经常评论我们的外貌。很多美国人虽然好像很有自信,但是实际上心里很敏感。美国人认为不管是朋友还是陌生人,当面批评别人的外貌是没礼貌的。有的人认为连爸妈都不该批评子女的外貌。中国亲戚朋友之间没什么恶意的“你胖了”、“又起痘痘了”、“胸大一点就好了”都可能得罪美国人。有的美国人听到了这些话好像无所谓,不一定代表他们真正的感情反应情感反应,所以要小心一点。
其实,经常夸你的美国朋友长得好看也可能让他们觉得尴尬,甚至可能让他们怀疑你的动机。总的来说,我们都有镜子,没必要提醒人家自己长得怎么样。
4)不停地“讲课”。我知道这种人应该是只想帮我们多了解中国的丰富文化,但是我们要通过双方对话和交流才能成为好朋友。
5) 以为我们都很外向。很多在美国的留学生,特别是东亚的学生,跟我说过他们不知道怎么开始跟美国人聊天。他们以为如果我们真的想和他们交朋友,就会主动。结果,也会以为一个美国人不主动地和你聊天意味着他对你没兴趣。你可能不知道,据研究,很多美国人对外国人也是这么想的。美国也有害羞的人。而且,美国的种族关系情况很糟糕,导致美国人特别害怕自己的行为会看作是种族歧视。有时候这种想法会阻止非黄种美国人和亚洲人交流。你下次想和一个美国人聊天,不要紧张,他可能对你也很好奇。
以上的是我和我的美国朋友们发现的问题。欢迎别的美国人表示表达自己的看法。当然也欢迎中国人分享自己的体验和想法。希望你们知道了这些就可以交一万美国朋友 :D基本上没有可以修改的地方!可能因为中国人大多并不真正了解西方,所以只能谈论我们认为安全的话题。谢谢你的提醒,我会注意的!:)
0 votedMay 7, 20168- Feeling after reading south of the border, west of the sun As a chinese girl who grew up with japanese literature and cartoon, I had a strong feeling of fanililarity when I pick up a book names south of the border,west of the sun. This afternoon I went to the biggest book shop in chengdu, and I find out a chinese version of this novel. I read it the whole afternoon in the coffee shop I always stay at. I have to say, if it's not because it is chinese version so that I can read quickly, I can hardly finish reading it. The life that Hajime has is so different from mine, I have a vage image of what it's like, and it's to obscure for me to bring myself in. During the hero Hajime's life, he is always finding something, which confused me. The relationship between Hajime and Shimamoto is also hard to understand. This kind of book reminds me of other Japanese novels, They are all not like a clear scenery. When you read the story, it's like you standing in a forest covered with mist. Maybe I should just remenber the feeling. Even though I still unable to understand, but when time is right, I will understand someday. I will read an English version again and find out if there is other interesting feelings~ 【I know there must be lots of errors in the journal! I am not a native English speaker, so if anyone can correct them I would be very thankful!】May 6, 201620
- what's the best education we can give to the children? Today there is an opinion about education impressed me, and I think the statement really make sense——"Instead of pumping time and money into exams, we should focus on wellbeing and encouraging children to connect with the natural world" . Nowadays we have so many kinds of exams. Whatever you want to do, generally you have to take an exam or test first——you want to go to a good high school? Take an exam. You want to become a member of team? Have a test……Groups, colleges, universities, and government, they all want better person who has some special skills or talents they need. Is it the best education we can give to our next generation? Just give them a booklist, ask them to remenber the knowledge, and have exams to measure their abilities in subjects that government determined? There are some basic questions that teachers seldom ask us ( maybe in other countries things are different) Should we learn these subjects like English, math, physics and music? Why? What a kind of person we should be? What do we want to be? Why do we have exams? What's the meaning of compitition? What should we do when we get a high score? How do we face a bad result?…… When children completely have no idea about the answers of questions above, how can they learn genuine knowledge?If a student don't want to study at a subject at all, he didn't make any effort to learn knowledge of this subject, It would be easy to imagine how worse the exam would be. A bad exam occurs at wrong time and in the wrong child, it just make a child feel worthless, desperate and self-abasement. Actually an exam that our society gives us is just a way to measure someone's knowledge or ability in a particular subject. The real exam in our heart is more important. To be a better person we want to be and pass the exam in our heart by our pleasant virtue, I think this matters most. I think usually the way you do one thing is also the way you do everything. The auther says," Feeling comfortable in the wild gave me the confidence to be who I am, not who others want me to be. There is a natural simplicity to nature, it is far more tactile and tangible than in the classroom……“. It's ture. The nature always gives us more inspiration, all the answers are in the magical recycle of the world. Spending some time in the nature, hanging around, making some stuff and solving some small problems, all of these activities may help our children to think about some basic questions.May 5, 201600
- 1. we use 当 to show "at the same time/when", the sentence order would be——“ 当……,她……” in our mental lexcon, this scene is all around ourselves. we see the world with ourselves as a center. so the image in the mind is "I got to her office, I saw that she was at a meeting", so the order of our sentence is the same as the image in our mind. of course, if you want to express "she was at a meeting" particularly or as the main meaning, you can put it ahead of the sentence——“她正在……当我……”, it's not the most natural order to express such a meaning, but we can use it when we think it needs to. 2."at first……,but later……“ would be "刚开始……,但后来……“ this order has the same reason as the first one: it go with our memory, the way you thinking. the sentence A and B after 刚开始 and 但后来 can be two independent sentences separatly. that's all i know. wish to help. I'm not a linguist but a university student, but you can think about it.0 votedApril 18, 20160
