Stop attention to the opinions of people Feeling complacency is not wrong, the search for it doesn't diminish the importance as persons, but overdoing in the attention of the opinions of people about you may bring you a lot of problems and psychological conflicts.When you pressed at the request of satisfaction of those around you, you send them an implicit message that you're incapable of thinking , and they 're better than you, and, therefore, you always need to their opinions to can complete your life. Maybe there are already many who are better than you, but you have to learn that you can be like them or even the best of them.In the end, they are people just like you.so you have to stop begging people to approve of what you do or think about it, of course, as long as what you think about isn't wrong. We're all different, and therefore, don't be sad if you find a critic, perhaps in the other hand, you may find an admirer, therefore you should not to come obsessed with admiration of the people. Continuous.