I want to write something about my son

My son is 5 years old this year. He is in kindergarten. Everyday, outside of class, he hesitates to be by himselft and always struggles to playing riding what do you mean? with his partners friends?. Sometimes, we as parents, want him stay quiet for a while. But in fact, unless he is exhausted, he chatters, or does something else noisy.
I know he is naughty what do you mean? and active. To an extent, that 's good. However, another viewpoint in my mind is that he should have more self-control. That is what I hope.