Currently passing through a real midlife crisis I started to feel my life's not enough for me, which is the toughest feeling ever. Not enough adventure, changes and personal dev. What helps you overcome such things as discourage and frustration, feeling unsatisfied and misunderstood? I personally believe that when one is constantly in search for inspiration, new information, feelings and experiences it makes him being alive, as long as we dream we live, as soon as we stop deaming and having ideas and plans, that probably makes us dead. But dreams can do a lot of harm as well, if you start losing touch with reality and yourself. The point is, where is that very limit, that finish line that could show us the right direction, where is that balance between reality and our vision and dreams which would never hurt you as much as something you can only dream about. They say:"When you can dream it, you can achieve it", the thing I used to believe for a long time, that kept me restless for many years, but now I finally realized that not everything depends on me, and sometimes you are too small even to dream your dreams, you were completely taken in, and the reality pulls you backward.