Ollie In “I will teach you a language “ podcast addressed this problem. It is really difficult to find a good match for language exchange. Just like you can meet many people but make only a few friends. You can talk to someone, think you had a good session, and then the other person disappears. Or you get someone who talks nonstop, in whichever language and you can’t get a word in edgewise.. Then there is the person who wants all English, and doesn’t want to shift to the other language. Or maybe you can’t carry on a conversation because you have no mutual interests. It’s a little like dating, trying to find a good match.
dont expect that your partner is going to teach you English, either. Teaching is hard work, and deserves to be paid. I can correct your mistakes, explain idioms, help you with your accent, etc., just like you can help me with your language. But I’m not going to polish up a ten page paper for you. (yes, someone actually asked me to do that. I didn’t.). I have had some really wonderfully exchanges, several lasting for over a year. I also find community tutors and work with them as well. And there are other conversation resources, like HelloTalk and Conversation Exchange. So hang in there, keep trying, and good luck!