Be a good friend, and you'll find yours in return.
Life teaches you a lot of lessons, if we just let it. Sometimes we think that life is so complicated, and it's hard for us to deal with things. When in fact, the problem is "us" and no one else. All we do, is judge others, and we forget sometimes that we all may be going through the same things.
You can love someone easily, whether you show it in words or actions. If only you would face situations such as love, it could possibly make you stronger. By dealing with some of the unpleasant things you have done in the past, you can teach someone else how you've dealt with it. You could learn a new way to live your life and enjoy it. You should be able to deal with others and to become more open to the world and all of it's surprises. But have you? What have you learned from all of this, nothing at all? Is it not a deal to you, that you hurt someone so close to you? In this situation, the opposite person isn't the one who would lose anything, it'll be you. At the end of the day, it's not that you will just lose a friend or relative. A life full of joy, happiness, sadness and many other emotions and trials could be gone. Just one of the great experience of being a human being .