American or British English italki teacher's advice needed for conducting conversational sessions with kids!
I have two sessions: one is a conversational session, and the other one is a story time session (which is not so popular and I'm going to change soon)
Not so long ago, I received a trial session request from one itlaki user. I accepted the request, and I was excited to get another booking! Little did I know that when the day would come for us to do our session, I would be presented with an 8 year old boy from Russia! This was my first time having a conversational English session with someone so young! I was not warned about this at-all! I had no idea what to do, what kind of conversations do you have with someone so young, and how do you keep them engaged?! I didn't know for sure what to talk about with this kid, but I started asking him a bunch of introductory questions, and eventually of course he began to lose interest and started playing with his computer and not really paying attention which was super draining... After I ran out of questions, I decided to change things up and share my screen to practice some easy beginner conversations from a website that has prepared conversational scripts... I told the kid that I would be person A and he would person B. We did this for the remainder of the time. He started showing a little more interest and engagement. He was a shy kid, I think that played a factor as well... Anyway. They booked another session and he seemed to be more attentative during that next session which was nice.
Shortly after these sessions I decided to leave a note in my session description, this exactly: "#1. I'm not experienced with holding English conversational sessions with children, so please consider looking for a more experienced teacher for your child. Thank you for your understanding!"
About a week later after making this note, I received a new session request. The session request was scheduled for 09:30-10:00, this session was scheduled to come directly after another session (There's no way to set a buffer time between sessions, which I've recently contacted italki about to maybe implement in a future update) anwyay, I contacted this person to let them know that if they wanted this time slot, to please understand that I will need a minute or two to get to the class after my previous one. They said it was fine.
Before I accepted this person's request, I noticed that they had filled out my contact form, I had missed this! And upon reading it I soon realized that this conversational session was being booked for a mother's 10 year old son this time! I quickly went back to the chat to apologize to the mother, and pointed out that in my session description I made it clear that I don't teach children, to which she replied: "Sorry to hear about this. We looked a lot of videos, but the only person, he wanted to communicate with, was You. So we would appreciate a lot if You could make a test lesson with my son. The most important thing for him is to practise his English in conversation further. Thanks in advance!!"
Awwe man, I felt so bad, and I didn't want to let the kid down... He wanted to communicate with me out of all the videos they searched?! How can you pass that up!? So I accepted the session and then I started looking into ways on how to teach children around this age, I watched as many italki videos on Youtube as I could where children were being taught English but they weren't specifically conversational based sessions! Which is a problem... I soon came across something called TPRS, but it was too late to get a feel for it....
When it came time for the session the mother sat in the very back of the room on her phone texting while her son and I had our first session. I asked him to introduce himself etc. then we eventually did the same thing I did with the 8 year old. We went back and forth going through a scirpted conversation, but this time, I did something a little different, at the end of the conversation I'd ask the kid really silly questions about the conversation we just had, which he seemed to really appreciate. In the end, it turned out really well and he said he had fun and wanted to do another session, and the mother has since booked another session for him with me, and so has the other kid's mother...
So now I'm up here holding English conversations with two children, and I could really use some tips or advice on this! If there are any italki teachers out there who have the free time and more experience that could help me with my conversational sessions with children, that would be so awesome, and I'd greatly appreciate it! Just direct message me! Please be kind.
Thanks for your time!