Hi Vilson,

In my point of view, one reason for which people are quite reluctant to communicate with someone new is because they have no appropriate topics to talk about. You can imagine how awkward the situation is when we don't know what else to say after talking for a period of time. On the other hand, I don't think we can enjoy talking about grammar or academical things all the time. We've had it at school. What we need is practice. Yea, I admit, maybe it's because we're facing different issues or because we have little information about the current issues our partner's facing. 

For instance, once I met someone who wanted to be able to speak Indonesian language and then we set the time to meet. After we talked for some minutes that person left me without saying any goodbyes, but I could still see the "online" status of that person. Then I looked at our messages again, and I found that there weren't any questions or attempts to speak Indonesian. There were only questions about tourism sites in Indonesia but I couldn't explain them well.

So I think we should write in our profile about what we're interested in whether in politics, economics, films, musics or anime, so that we can see if that person matches our preference or not. (^__^)