I am confused now. Maybe I am too young to understand some principles of life. I know it's no necessary to change yourself to meet someone else,I mean become the one other people like.But when some people around you get hurt because of your behaviors and begin to dislike you even break up with you.No just one,some.You begin to think about yourself and want to change.But unfortunately,because of your own experience of being abandoned, you became to afraid, afraid being disliked and broken yp again like before,so you change,change,change,at last, you are not yourself.So you on earth should be youself or change yourself into a better one but you are not happy?