Hi. I would like to discuss quite a serious topic. I live in the southern part of Russia among people of many ethnic groups, who have different religion, customs and traditions. Some of them, for instance, are not allowed to communicate with their in-laws. In other families sons have never shared a meal with their fathers and fathers have never touched the hand of their child in front of other people (including their own parents). Many men don't drink or smoke in front of their parents or elder brothers. I think, partly I can understand the last fact, but on the other hand, I am glad that I was born in a family, in which I can be myself.
I am always honest with my parents. If I know that they would not want me to do something, I will try not to do it even if there is no way for them to know about that. In most situations my parents are like friends for me. Well, ok, I don't use some slang words while talking to them and we don't discuss some 'too personal' things, but we can have fun together. I like having diner, dancing, telling jokes and relax with my parents, my in-laws, my husband and my kids. I don't worry that they will misunderstand me or that they will consider my behavior as some kind of disrespect. I am Christian by the way.
What about you? Where are you from? What is your religion? Could your describe your relationships with your elders?
