Should success be measured only by money and position? When speaking of successful people, we will automatically think of Albert Einstein, Edison, Hawking and so on. We remember Edison’s invention---bulb, which brings us brightness in the dark. We know Albert Einstein for being the founder of relativity. We admire Hawking for black hole. All of them r successful because of their invention and discovery, their contribution to making our lives more convenient and nicer. However we seldom talk of their money and position, what we remember is their own story and research. It is not their money and position that make them successful but their research and invention. So what is success? Success is not only measured by money and position but also by the process of success, the sense of happiness. Nowadays, there r so many second rich generations, they idle away their time with their parents’ money, live an extravagant life, even throw their weight around poor people, use money and position to rape, fight, corrupt, even abuse anyone. Those sort of second rich generations have money and position, however do u think they r successful? Absolutely no. What they do is despised and hated by people, they r not worth success at all. For they has no desire to advance , no morality and no compassion, what they can only do is to waste food, do harm to people and the society. What a really successful people do is that they suffer from much hardship on their own, do things step by step with conscience to accomplish their ideas. When they look back, they r filled with sense of achievement, they feel happy not guilty or ashamed. If people has much money and position, however they r lonely, guilty or depressed in their heart, they r not really successful. They r just rich in material. From my perspective, the people giving others satisfaction in spirit and convenience is the really successful one.

Is Malaysia English much different from American English? I am afraid it will make me confuse

How to deal with relationship problem between people?

Have you ever felt  confused with relationship with friends,especially with different sex? Recently I am confused. One of my good friends told me he likes me and want me to be his girlfriend but I always purely regard him as a friend.I am a girl valuing a people's appearance. He is not handsome and poor but humorous.What I feel on him is sense of appreciation, not passion. However, if I refuse him, I will stop contacting with him in case of being trapped in it,hurting each other more. But I don't want to lose such a good friend, who often staying beside me, ,calling talking with me, sharing everything with me. When I have got used to this kind of life, after I refused  his request, everything has changed. But I still recall them, why?What should I do?Just forget him, accept losing a friend.I am so confused everyday thinking about the same question.What is wrong with me?

how to concentrate yourself As for me, it is hard to make me concentrated in the study, everytime I look at the book, I cannot keep a long time and always think about other things.How to do it?How do you keep on one thing?

minor things in life I write this essay just for releasing my unhappiness. These days I am confused with many things----conflict with my friend and worrying for myself. One day, I went to have my class with my friend, who is also my roomate.We often come back to dormitory together.But on that day, after class, I can find her and I phoned,however receiving "There is no way to contact". Then I went awaey with other friends. However,my friend left alone did't recieve my message of calling, and she waited there for a moment for us.When we met together at cafeteria,she looked angry, which made me confused. She said angrily "why you didn't wait me". When I explained to her in words, she didn't believe me bucause she did't receive a calling meessage. I was so sad that after we went back to the room, I took out of my phone to make her see my calling record.At that time, she didn't make a sound. But now we still do not talk to each other. I don't like this moment,a sound,depressive atmosphere. But we are so stubborn that we both don't want to give in first. I really don't like this moment. Dealing with conflict is really a difficult thing.

My trip to Yangjiang This is the second time I travel in my college.Compared with the first trip to Zhuhai Silvery Beach,Yangjiang is much more beautiful and cleaner.Obiously,I enjoyed the time there.I along with the whole classmates go for a trip.We went to three places of intrest---first Dajiaowan,second Shiliyintan,last Mawei Island.When we reached the first place ,we were attracted by the extensive ,clean sea and the boundless blue sky.I couldn't wait to play the water.I felt so happy and close to the nature.It smeemed that I was in the hug of my mother---so peaceful in my heart.Then we went to Shiliyintan,which is famous for its ancient ship dating back to Song Dynasty.At first sight of it ,I felt the prosperity at that time,producing china and silk and transporting them abroad.Although the ship was refloated after many years,it still keeps its shape and the design.From the wall,I saw the beautiful,particular patterns,which brought me to Song Dynasty,made me feel a sense of pride and China's charm.What impressed me most is a pair of eyes on the front of the ship,making my impression tto our ansestors and history more myterious and attractive.The last place was Mawei Island.Why do we call it like this?Because the island is famous for its shape,which looks like a long and curving tail when standing on the mountain .How romantic,isn't it?Though it was kind of tiredness after the trip,I still feel it is worthwhile for you to relax yourself and adjust yourself after the noisy and busy life and work.Yangjiang,I hope I can travel again next time with my families.A heaven of peaceful heart.Maybe there is somemistakes in it.Hope you can point out them.Thanks.I like English.