hello , first you have to know what is hapiness i will give you exmple , look "elvis prisle"" the rock star had monney and health and wommens and he was fameuse but he die in his ""wc" withe droges and every body sead that he was't happy , so hapiness is not monny ,is not beauty ...hapiness is this inner peace that you fell inside you !! ; peace , as a muslim when bad thinks happen i say : this is fate and i can do nothing else be patiente and then "god" will reward me ,'this is inner peace" and if good thinks happen to me then i have to be gratefule to 'god' , so to summarize ,to be happy you should have good relationship whit ''god'' and know that he don't create us to just play and die but to go to paradise ^_^ (hope so) . uh this is juste me opinion -by the way i did the same thinks and i am realy happy - and realy sorry about my english i try to do my best ....i love you all and wishe the hapinesse for every body in the world ^_^

Alternative wording for you: "How can I be happy? I'm not feeling very happy." "How can I feel happier? I feel like I'm not really happy."

Hey Emy, Do you know, why you aren't happy? I don't think I can help a lot, because I have the same problem,but I'll try. Do things that make you happy. Small things, that make your day. Smile a lot. Enjoy every single thing you do. Even if you don't like it, look for it's bright side. Last thing: If you keep telling yourself you aren't happy, you won't be. You deserve to be happy. Just like everyone else. :)

The first thing you have to ask yourself is what is really making you unhappy. Too often it is trying to live up to other peoples expectations and plans. If that is the base cause of your unhappiness, make some tough decisions. Decide what is important for you, and resolve to live your life to your own personal standard. Set your own goals, and aim for them. There is a feeling of great relief and happiness inside when you finally become your own person, not living your life to appease others.

Hi.Emy. It's great realize that you are not really happy, and you are questioning.That means you are learning. Happy is an attitude, you don't have to get something or do something before you can be happy. You can be happy right now as long as you chose to. But you got to know you have this right and ability to do so. Things always happen,sometimes in our favorite ways,sometimes not. But you can always chose to face it happily or unhappily, positively or negatively. Remember that sometimes a 'good' thing can bring us a bad result, and a 'bad' thing can bring us a good result.So try to look farther and imagine that good result which is waiting for you, instead of focusing on the 'bad' thing in front of you. Keep your faith, just be happy,it's your choice to make.