its you speak to him but you can also use "you tell him"

- you say to him - you speak to him - you talk to him It's "to him" in all cases. It's like spanish in this case, you don't say "Habla el.", you say "Habla con el.". The difference is they use "to" (para) instead of "with" (con).

"Did you say anything to me yesterday" "Please speak to me" "did you talk to him"

All three verbs take an indirect object regarding TO WHOM a person is speaking, talking, saying something.: I said many things TO him, ... She talked about the lesson TO to the teacher He spoke loudly TO the children. He said a lot of nonsense TO the reporters

Thank you for your advice!