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a question about loneliness How to keep yourself away from loneliness? I found as we grew up,loneliness comes more and more nearly. How to be optimistic?

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I have been through this stage last year in Germany. I sat in my room every day while everyone was outside having fun and going to clubs. That is not my kind of thing for entertainment. So I just play online games that can be boring too after a while. So now I am just occupying myself with more and more things to do. This keeps me from thinking about the little things and keeps me on my feet. I now play online game, study japanese, help people on italki and if I have time I try to have a chit-chat here and there. I often find myself having not enough time in the day instead! haha
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You can call you friends and talk anything. Try to read exciting novels and share it with friends. Do some exercises, yoga, or any physical exercise that keeps good health. Yoga is the best, you can do it alone. No matter how sad you are, try to cheer up! Keep on smiling girl, we are all beautiful!
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I think an important thing is to be open to new things. Too often we can reject new people in our life, or don't try new experiences without finding what they have to offer, and what we can give in return. This may be because we have been taught a certain way to think earlier in life, and this can close our mind. Look for new things, new people and new experiences to fill your life, soon you will barely be able to remember the word loneliness.
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Yeah! some times you definitely feel lonely. You can use this time to introspect, what you have been doing and what you were supposed to do.Think of all the good things God has given you in this life.God may have given you some negative things also, Do not ponder upon them.Try Meditation and Pranayama( Breathing Excercises).This gives you positive thinking, and energy. Practise this for a few months and see the chenged Vivian Miller, glowing with Energy and thinking of doing new things to make life more attractive.You can add a one more, try to help one person a day who is less fortunate than you.And see the satisfaction you will get out of the short life God has given you.Spread love and get love. All the Best.
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Family is how I avoid loneliness. Having people in your life that love you unconditionally is the secret to true happiness and fulfillment in life. I would suggest that you find true friends in life and try to avoid people who are not. Friends who are not true can sometimes aggravate loneliness. I think it is typical that people our age can feel lonely because at our age we are separating from the family that raised us to begin our own family. The period between this transition can feel empty and lonely, but I think it is important to remember that when we do succeed in starting our own family it is the most rewarding and fulfilling experience of our lives. To survive this transition I would suggest to stay close to our family and stay close to our true friends :)

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