I don't think it makes sense to talk about how to define a woman (or a man, for that matter) as successful. We all (men and women) have our own personal measures of success. For some, that might be prestige in their career; for others, writing a novel; for others, raising a family; for still others, earning lots of money... How successful we ARE depends on how far we reach these things that we so desperately want from our lives. There is, of course, another aspect, and that is how successful we APPEAR. We tend to project our own values on others whether we want to or not, and hence, use our own personal values to judge whether someone else is successful or not. I might be a penniless poet and my brother, a millionaire. As far as I'm concerned, I could be blissfully successful, whereas my brother might look upon me as an abject failure...

That would depend on what culture you come from. Women are defined as being successful differently in other cultures.

Usually, people would rate her in terms of a good career and attractiveness.

the defination of success is diffrent for diffrent persones{whatever he or she}

happy with her life