Why boys keep on texting girls here?
Although immediately after signing up to this site, I mentioned that I'm in no way gonna talk to boys, but still I'm keep on receiving texts from boys. It's haram brothers. STOP IT.
Some will ask if we can just speak for learning, or from whom u r afraid of?
It's haram and involves fitna even for learning. Be honest and think boys, if u talked to girls here even as sisters. Would u like the same chat to be done by another boy with your sister? Doesn't it go towards fitna? I'm afraid of Allah, no one else.
Same goes to sisters! If anyone is hiding from family and talking to brothers, even as brothers it's fitna and haram. And by time u will lose your haya and shyness. (Haya is a part of Iman).
I'm so frustrated of this and maybe will deactivate my account soon. What you think?
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Every message has a icon labeled "Flag" or "Report". Click this icon to report offensive messages. Hopefully, the offenders will be warned or banned from the website. After you report them, you can BLOCK them so they cannot send you any further messages.
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italki, is not a Muslim site so you should not expect people here to obey the social rules of Islam. This is a secular website and one should be tolerant of other cultures and belief systems, as the Koran says. However, if boys are speaking in inappropriate ways, flirting with you or making suggestive remarks, that is not proper behavior here or anywhere, especially if it is unwelcome. In secular society, boys and girls and men and women have the right to engage in any sort of talk or behavior they wish (within sensible limits of course), as long as it is by consent. If one party does not wish to engage they simply walk away, and if a person persists in unwanted talk, you can report them to italki, perhaps there is also a way to block them, I'm not sure.
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Boys are always boys , like they always say . Your interpretation as to what is wrong is only true to those who believe in what you are saying -- which I don't, because I am not a Muslim.
But, this is not a chat site, so what you said is totally understandable .
Ignore or block them is the best way to stop these nuisances.
I guess most of these boys are from Muslim countries .No?
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I think you really need to loosen up a bit and enjoy life more, sister xD
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