Resilience is literally the ability to return to its original state after being deformed, when you describe a person as "resilient" you are saying they recover quickly. Tenacity is literally the ability to hold on to things with your hands, when you describe someone as tenacious you are saying that they are able to endure. Openness refers how freely someone gives and accepts information. An open person is more likely to consider new ideas, share their emotions, things like that. The question is poorly phrased, but "figure in" means to include or incorporate, so I think it is asking "How are these traits incorporated into your life?"